Suzan-Lori Parks
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Suzan-Lori Parks at Mount Holyoke, 2001
A commencement address in sixteen suggestions about self-trust, discipline, patience, love, gratitude, and bold imagination.
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- 01Mount Holyoke College
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- 02Class of 2001
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- 0316 suggestions
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- 04Think for yourself
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- 05Inner ear training
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- 06Relish the road
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- 07Splurge your life
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- 08Be bold
Final charge
Self-trust: Think for yourself before following advice
Parks turns bad advice from a teacher into her first principle: listen to advice, then test it against the heart, gut, and inner life.
Advice
Suggestions are useful only when they align with what is alive inside.
Training
Excellent education becomes inner ear training: a way to hear one’s own judgment.
Agency
The graduate must decide what counsel to accept and what to leave behind.
Parks turns bad advice from a teacher into her first principle: listen to advice, then test it against the heart, gut, and inner life.
Practice: Discipline and patience are forms of care
The speech reframes discipline as an expression of self-love and patience as the capacity to let the right thing arrive in time.
Discipline
Work is not self-punishment; it is devotion to what one is building.
Patience
Dream jobs, words, and relationships arrive when a person can handle them.
Road
Keep walking the road without demanding that every answer appear at once.
The speech reframes discipline as an expression of self-love and patience as the capacity to let the right thing arrive in time.
Road: The winding path is part of the gift
Parks celebrates detours, transformation, and making something beautiful from imperfect materials.
Relish
The road of a life is likely to be winding, and that is worth enjoying.
Alchemy
Make a silk purse from a sow’s ear by working creatively with what is available.
Cross-training
Poems, malls, humor, senses, and surprise all keep the spirit flexible.
Parks celebrates detours, transformation, and making something beautiful from imperfect materials.
Love: Do not merely spend a life; splurge it
The address urges graduates to devote themselves to what they love, because love sustains talent through obstacles.
Talent
Talent is described as the gift of love practiced over time.
Action
Writing, painting, singing, building, and risking are ways to splurge a life.
Courage
Get out of your own way and stop tripping over the self.
The address urges graduates to devote themselves to what they love, because love sustains talent through obstacles.
• Key takeaways •
Think for yourself
Connects to self-trust.
Discipline can be love
Connects to discipline.
Relish the winding road
Connects to creativity.
Splurge life on what you love
Connects to gratitude.
Be bold and summon the future
Connects to boldness.
Closing charge
The final suggestions are simple and radical: say thank you, love yourself, and summon the life you want.
Gratitude and self-love open the future
Gratitude
Thank you is a weekly practice that keeps relationships visible.
Self-love
Love yourself because the person doing the work needs care.
Vision
Bold imagination begins moving the desired life toward the graduate.
The final suggestions are simple and radical: say thank you, love yourself, and summon the life you want.
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