Vivek Murthy
U.S. Surgeon General
U.S. Surgeon General Vivek Murthy, a Yale School of Medicine alumnus, tells the graduating class that the most important predictor of health and happiness is strong relationships, citing his advisory on loneliness and isolation. Drawing on personal stories about his medical training, a family financial betrayal, and the end of his first term as Surgeon General, he offers three principles for building meaningful connection: be present, be real, and show up. He closes with a reflection on how children instinctively show empathy and a guided practice for difficult moments.
“Love is the world's oldest medicine.”
Key moments
- 01 Reflecting on finding belonging and meeting his wife at Yale
- 02 Warning about the epidemic of loneliness and isolation and its health effects
- 03 The surgeon who spent five present minutes with a patient
- 04 Forming a 'moai' support group after his first Surgeon General term ended
- 05 Friends showing up after his family lost their savings to a con artist
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Vivek Murthy at Yale, 2024
A Class Day address about healing isolation, choosing connection, friendship as medicine, gratitude, and the daily practice of love.
Speech arc
- 01Pandemic class
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- 02Isolation
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- 03Connection
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- 04Love
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- 05Friendship
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- 06Service
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- 07Gratitude
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- 08Healing
Final charge
Context: A class shaped by distance
Murthy addresses graduates whose Yale years began under pandemic separation, making loneliness and reconnection central to the charge.
Beginning
The class entered college after disrupted high school rituals and early virtual campus life.
Cost
Isolation is treated as a public health and human problem, not a private weakness.
Audience
The address meets graduates at the emotional reality of the years they actually lived.
Murthy addresses graduates whose Yale years began under pandemic separation, making loneliness and reconnection central to the charge.
Diagnosis: Connection is a form of health
As surgeon general, Murthy frames belonging, friendship, and presence as practical conditions for individual and civic well-being.
Belonging
Human connection becomes infrastructure for resilience rather than a soft extra.
Presence
Attention to another person is presented as a healing act in ordinary life.
Civic
A less lonely society depends on habits graduates can choose and repeat.
As surgeon general, Murthy frames belonging, friendship, and presence as practical conditions for individual and civic well-being.
Practice: Love is disciplined action
The speech turns love from sentiment into conduct: make time, show gratitude, repair bonds, and let people know they matter.
Friendship
Relationships require deliberate maintenance after campus proximity disappears.
Gratitude
Thanking others clarifies how many hands carried each graduate to the day.
Repair
Reaching out, apologizing, and returning are small acts with large emotional weight.
The speech turns love from sentiment into conduct: make time, show gratitude, repair bonds, and let people know they matter.
• Key takeaways •
Isolation needs attention
Connects to connection.
Belonging sustains health
Connects to public health.
Love is practiced daily
Connects to friendship.
Gratitude reveals support
Connects to gratitude.
Connection is public work
Connects to service.
Closing charge
Murthy sends graduates toward careers and communities where achievement is measured partly by the connection they create around them.
Build lives that reduce loneliness
Service
Professional success is asked to answer a human need beyond status.
Choice
Connection is built through repeated choices, especially when efficiency points elsewhere.
Legacy
The lasting work is to help others feel seen, held, and less alone.
Murthy sends graduates toward careers and communities where achievement is measured partly by the connection they create around them.
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Category: Service/Activism
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