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Commencement Speeches About Love & Relationships
Beneath the career advice, many speakers insist that the people in your life are the life. These addresses are about love, family, and friendship — the relationships that outlast jobs and titles, and the danger of being too busy to tend them.
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Beneath the career advice, many speakers insist that the people in your life are the life. These addresses are about love, family, and friendship — the relationships that outlast jobs and titles, and the danger of being too busy to tend them.
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John Legend University of Pennsylvania / 2014 Why it belongs here The entire address is built around loving yourself, your work, and the people around you as the key to success and happiness. This theme is central to the speech. 02 
Melinda French Gates Stanford University / 2024 Why it belongs here She describes carrying her late friend's wife through grief and being carried through her own divorce, building a 'web of deserved trust' among people. This theme is central to the speech. 03 
George Saunders Syracuse University / 2013 Why it belongs here He predicts that as people age their selfish self diminishes and is gradually replaced by love, quoting a poet who wrote he was mostly love near the end of his life. This theme is central to the speech. Featured speeches
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Why it belongs here The entire address is built around loving yourself, your work, and the people around you as the key to success and happiness.
Why it belongs here She describes carrying her late friend's wife through grief and being carried through her own divorce, building a 'web of deserved trust' among people.
Why it belongs here She repeatedly credits the friends and chosen family she built at Stanford as the community that showed up for her and enabled her career.
Why it belongs here He predicts that as people age their selfish self diminishes and is gradually replaced by love, quoting a poet who wrote he was mostly love near the end of his life.
Why it belongs here He closes by telling graduates that family and dear friends are what really matters, thanking his mother and wife and reflecting on his parents' meeting.
Why it belongs here He contends that acknowledging fear leads to compassion for ourselves and others, and that our ability to love is our greatest power.
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Stanford University / 2024 / Founder, Pivotal Ventures
Stanford University / 2021 / Writer, actor, and producer
University of Pennsylvania / 2014 / Field: arts
Syracuse University / 2013 / Field: letters
University of Michigan / 2009 / Field: tech
Yale University / 2024 / U.S. Surgeon General
Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2012 / Founder and Executive Director, Khan Academy
Harvard University / 2011 / Field: arts
Rice University / 2011 / Field: arts
Northwestern University / 2011 / Field: arts
Stanford University / 2004 / Field: arts
University of Wisconsin / 2003 / Field: arts
Maine College of Art / 2003 / Field: arts
Villanova University / 2000 / Field: letters
University of California, Berkeley / 2007 / Field: business
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Stanford University / 2025 / Olympian and Stanford alumna
Stanford University / 2018 / Actor and Stanford alumnus
Wellesley College / 2015 / Field: letters
University of Michigan / 2014 / Field: business
Princeton University / 2013 / Field: politics
Middlebury College / 2013 / Field: letters
Wesleyan University / 2013 / Field: arts
University of Mississippi / 2013 / Field: letters
Stanford University / 2012 / Mayor of Newark, New Jersey
Goucher College / 2012 / Field: arts
Stanford University / 2010 / U.S. ambassador to the United Nations
Dartmouth College / 2018 / Actor, writer, producer, and Dartmouth alumna
Yale University / 2015 / 47th vice president of the United States
University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill / 2014 / Field: science
Austin Community College / 2014 / Field: business
New School / 2014 / Field: letters
Wellesley College / 2012 / Field: arts
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Ball State University / 2012 / Field: arts
Belhaven University / 2011 / Field: arts
Hofstra University / 2011 / Field: arts
University of Toledo / 2011 / Field: business
Bates College / 2009 / Field: letters
Colorado College / 2008 / Field: letters
Yale University / 2008 / Former prime minister of the United Kingdom
San Jose State University / 2007 / Field: tech
Liberty University / 2006 / Field: politics
Stanford University / 2003 / President of Peru
Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2025 / Science communicator, video creator, and entrepreneur
Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2023 / Engineer, educator, and founder of CrunchLabs
Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2015 / U.S. Chief Technology Officer
Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2014 / Chair and CEO, DuPont
Yale University / 2012 / Television journalist
Montgomery College / 2006 / Field: politics
Massachusetts School of Law / 2006 / Field: arts
University of Texas, Austin / 2003 / Field: business
Yale University / 2003 / Foreign-affairs columnist, The New York Times; three-time Pulitzer Prize winner
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