Commencement Archive

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Commencement Speeches About Love & Relationships

Beneath the career advice, many speakers insist that the people in your life are the life. These addresses are about love, family, and friendship — the relationships that outlast jobs and titles, and the danger of being too busy to tend them.

26 speeches / 8 core matches

Melinda French Gates's 2024 Stanford University commencement address infographic

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Beneath the career advice, many speakers insist that the people in your life are the life. These addresses are about love, family, and friendship — the relationships that outlast jobs and titles, and the danger of being too busy to tend them.

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Melinda French Gates's 2024 Stanford University commencement address infographic

Why it belongs here She describes carrying her late friend's wife through grief and being carried through her own divorce, building a 'web of deserved trust' among people.

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Paul Glaser's 2004 Stanford University commencement address infographic

Why it belongs here He contends that acknowledging fear leads to compassion for ourselves and others, and that our ability to love is our greatest power.

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Anna Quindlen's 2000 Villanova University commencement address infographic

Why it belongs here She describes her resume of being a good mother, spouse, and friend, and tells graduates to find people who love them and treasure human connection.

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Why it belongs here The entire address is built around loving yourself, your work, and the people around you as the key to success and happiness.

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Salman Khan's 2012 Massachusetts Institute of Technology commencement address infographic

Why it belongs here He stresses that choosing a life partner matters more than career and that deep relationships with family, spouse, and parents are what truly count.

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Why it belongs here He predicts that as people age their selfish self diminishes and is gradually replaced by love, quoting a poet who wrote he was mostly love near the end of his life.

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Melinda French Gates

Stanford University / 2024 / Founder, Pivotal Ventures

Core match Infographic Summary ResilienceIdentity & Authenticity
Salman Khan

Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2012 / Founder and Executive Director, Khan Academy

Core match Infographic Summary Purpose & MeaningMortality & Time
Core match Infographic Summary CourageMortality & Time
Core match Infographic Summary Purpose & MeaningMortality & Time
Core match Summary Purpose & MeaningCourage
Katie Ledecky

Stanford University / 2025 / Olympian and Stanford alumna

Related mention Infographic Summary CouragePurpose & Meaning
Ben Bernanke

Princeton University / 2013 / Field: politics

Related mention Infographic Summary Purpose & MeaningIdentity & Authenticity
Susan Rice

Stanford University / 2010 / U.S. ambassador to the United Nations

Related mention Infographic Summary Global ResponsibilityPublic Service & Civic Life
Billy Collins

Colorado College / 2008 / Field: letters

Related mention Infographic Summary Mortality & TimeGratitude & Humility
Tony Blair

Yale University / 2008 / Former prime minister of the United Kingdom

Related mention Infographic Summary Global ResponsibilityPurpose & Meaning
Hank Green

Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2025 / Science communicator, video creator, and entrepreneur

Related mention Infographic Summary Curiosity & LearningPurpose & Meaning
Mark Rober

Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2023 / Engineer, educator, and founder of CrunchLabs

Related mention Infographic Summary Hope & OptimismFailure
Megan Smith

Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2015 / U.S. Chief Technology Officer

Related mention Infographic Summary Kindness & EmpathySocial Justice & Equality
Related mention Infographic Summary Technology & SciencePurpose & Meaning
Barbara Walters

Yale University / 2012 / Television journalist

Related mention Infographic Summary FailurePurpose & Meaning
Tom Friedman

Yale University / 2003 / Foreign-affairs columnist, The New York Times; three-time Pulitzer Prize winner

Related mention Infographic Summary ResiliencePurpose & Meaning
Mary Barra

University of Michigan / 2014 / Field: business

Related mention Summary Work & AmbitionLeadership & Integrity
Ira Glass

Goucher College / 2012 / Field: arts

Related mention Summary ResilienceFailure
Fareed Zakaria

Bates College / 2009 / Field: letters

Related mention Summary Hope & OptimismResilience

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