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Commencement Speeches About Kindness & Empathy
A recurring, quietly radical commencement message: be kind. These speeches argue that empathy and everyday decency are not soft skills but the measure of a life — and often the hardest, most deliberate thing a smart, ambitious person can practice.
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A recurring, quietly radical commencement message: be kind. These speeches argue that empathy and everyday decency are not soft skills but the measure of a life — and often the hardest, most deliberate thing a smart, ambitious person can practice.
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George Saunders Syracuse University / 2013 Why it belongs here The speaker frames his deepest regret as failures of kindness, using the story of a teased classmate to argue that trying to be kinder is the best goal in life. This theme is central to the speech. 02 
Jonathan Safran Foer Middlebury College / 2013 Why it belongs here He centers on attentiveness, empathy, and compassion, citing the crying stranger and the moral work of caring for others' needs. This theme is central to the speech. 03 
Meryl Streep Barnard College / 2010 Why it belongs here She repeatedly frames empathy as the heart of the actor's art and the driving force behind cultural and emotional change. This theme is central to the speech. Featured speeches
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Why it belongs here The speaker frames his deepest regret as failures of kindness, using the story of a teased classmate to argue that trying to be kinder is the best goal in life.
Why it belongs here He centers on attentiveness, empathy, and compassion, citing the crying stranger and the moral work of caring for others' needs.
Why it belongs here She repeatedly frames empathy as the heart of the actor's art and the driving force behind cultural and emotional change.
Why it belongs here Melinda's account of carrying a dying AIDS patient to see the sunset and holding a stranger's hand illustrates empathy as essential to making optimism meaningful.
Why it belongs here She urges graduates to seek to understand others, listen to people's stories, and recognize shared humanity across differences.
Why it belongs here The grandfather's lesson that it is harder to be kind than clever anchors the address's distinction between gifts and moral choices.
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Syracuse University / 2013 / Field: letters
Middlebury College / 2013 / Field: letters
Barnard College / 2010 / Field: arts
Yale University / 2024 / U.S. Surgeon General
Stanford University / 2014 / Philanthropists
USC Annenberg School for Communication and Journalism / 2012 / Field: letters
University of Delaware / 2012 / Field: arts
Pitzer College / 2010 / Field: politics
Princeton University / 2010 / Field: business
Eckerd College / 2004 / Field: letters
Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2015 / U.S. Chief Technology Officer
Yale University / 2013 / Mayor of Newark, New Jersey
Massachusetts School of Law / 2006 / Field: arts
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Stanford University / 2023 / Tennis champion
Stanford University / 2021 / Writer, actor, and producer
Stanford University / 2018 / Actor and Stanford alumnus
Stanford University / 2017 / California Supreme Court justice
Stanford University / 2016 / Documentary filmmaker
University of Mississippi / 2013 / Field: letters
University of Michigan / 2010 / Field: politics
Arizona State University / 2009 / Field: politics
Ball State University / 2008 / Field: business
Harvard University / 2007 / Field: business
Yale University / 2019 / Novelist and nonfiction writer
Yale University / 2018 / Former secretary of state, senator, and first lady
Yale University / 2015 / 47th vice president of the United States
Tulane University / 2015 / Field: arts
University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill / 2014 / Field: science
Austin Community College / 2014 / Field: business
Smith College / 2013 / Field: letters
University of California, San Diego / 2013 / Field: arts
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Belhaven University / 2011 / Field: arts
Scripps College / 2010 / Field: letters
Yale University / 2010 / 42nd president of the United States
University of Tennessee / 2009 / Field: arts
University of Portland / 2009 / Field: letters
Stanford University / 2008 / Media executive and philanthropist
Calvin College / 2005 / Field: politics
University of California, Berkeley / 2003 / Field: letters
Maine College of Art / 2003 / Field: arts
Connecticut College / 2001 / Field: arts
Villanova University / 2000 / Field: letters
Yale University / 2026 / Novelist and essayist
Yale University / 2025 / Former prime minister of New Zealand
Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2020 / Retired U.S. Navy admiral
Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2018 / COO, Facebook
Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2017 / CEO, Apple
Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2016 / Actor, filmmaker, and co-founder of Water.org
Yale University / 2012 / Television journalist
Massachusetts Institute of Technology / 2006 / Chairman, Federal Reserve
Yale University / 2003 / Foreign-affairs columnist, The New York Times; three-time Pulitzer Prize winner
Yale University / 2001 / U.S. Senator from New York; Yale Law School Class of 1973
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